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Learn to Ask Questions

As teenagers, one of the most powerful habits you can develop is the art of asking questions—especially when you are in the company of elders, mentors, or those who have walked the path before you. Never allow shyness, fear, or the desire to appear smart rob you of the treasure hidden in another person’s wisdom. Asking questions is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of strength, curiosity, and intentional growth. Even Jesus, at the age of twelve, sat among teachers in the temple, both listening and asking questions (Luke 2:46). That wasn’t just about knowledge; it was about preparing for His future.

Don’t just seek to know what is happening around you; seek to understand why things are the way they are and how they can be improved. Every “why” you ask deepens your understanding. Every “what” opens a new window of awareness. Every “how” gives you tools for practical living. This hunger to understand life’s principles early will become your advantage later. Teenagers who learn to ask meaningful questions become adults who know how to make wise decisions because they are grounded in insight, not assumptions.

Being around elders and mentors is an opportunity many take for granted. But those who value such moments will find themselves years ahead of their peers. Instead of being entertained by noise, be eager to learn from voices. Instead of assuming you know it all, humble yourself to know more. One wise question can open a door that ignorance would have left shut for years. So, open your mouth in wisdom, and let your ears be ready to receive answers—because the quality of your questions today will shape the quality of your life tomorrow.

Prince Victor Matthew.

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