Emotional intelligence is the ability to identify and manage your own emotions and the emotions of others. It's the ability of you being sensitive and considerate to your own self and also to other people.  Emotional Intelligence is you giving attention voice, tone, body language and facial expression of people.  It's in you listening and understanding the voice of silence. SILENCE HAS A VOICE; emotional intelligence can only hear it. Emotional Intelligence is in you understand the voice behind any attitude displayed. It's you understanding the difference between people's reaction and their real struggle.  It's in you knowing why people do things instead of you being blinded by what they have done. Emotional intelligence is in your understanding people's motive through what they do and say. It's in you paying attention to "how" people do things. Emotional intelligence is not a place of presumption or assumption. 

In as much as some teenagers don't want to read this - I will still post it Teenagers have the right to learn what dating and relationship is all about BUT they have no business engaging in dating or emotional relationship Teenage season of your life is when you should get busy discovering who you are and what you have in capacity Teenage season of your life is when you should learn how to define your life through God's word and *GET A LIFE*  It's those that have a *life* of their own that are permitted to seek for a *lifemate or life partner* Why do you need a boyfriend now?  Why do you need a girl friend now?  Can u give me five reason you need a relationship as a teenager?  How does it fuel God's plan and purpose for your life? As long as you are still living under the roof of your parents house as a teenager, you don't have the capacity to nurture any relationship.   Relationship is Responsibility so - how responsible