Dear teenager, it’s important to understand the differences between sexual urge, sexual arousal, and sexual intercourse. These are natural parts of human biology, but without proper guidance, they can lead to confusion and mistakes that have lasting consequences. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, “To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven.” There is a proper time and context for everything, and as a teenager, you must embrace foresight and wisdom to navigate these feelings. Sexual urges are the natural desires that arise due to hormones and biological development. They are not sinful in themselves but must be controlled. James 1:14-15 warns, “But each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin.” Recognize that urges are a part of life, but allowing them to lead you into temptation is dangerous. Discipline your mind and body with the help of God’s Word....
Dear teenager, are you truly born again? Don’t just assume that being born into a godly home means you automatically have a relationship with God. The real question is, do you know Jesus for yourself? Do you have a personal revelation of who He is, and do you walk with Him daily? Matthew 16:15 says, "But what about you? Who do you say I am?" It’s important that you answer this question for yourself and not rely only on the faith of your parents or siblings. Thank God for the faith of your family, but it’s time for you to discover who God is personally in your life. He wants to be more than a name you hear at home—He wants to be your Savior and Friend. Jeremiah 29:13 says, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." God is waiting for you to seek Him with sincerity, and He desires to reveal Himself to you in ways that will transform your life. The Holy Spirit is already ready and waiting to help you understand who God is. You are ...