Respect the teenagers and listen to their ideas. In doing this, you are building up their self esteem. Invest in the teenagers and you will be able to preserve your legacy. The safety of the future lies in the maturity and safety of the teenagers. Pay attention to the moods of the teenagers for their silence speaks a million words. Correct the teenagers but don't condemn. Rebuke teenagers but stop rejecting them. Never you amplify their mistakes above their safety. Always remember, we all make mistakes that is not intentional. In the same light, pay attention to the struggles behind a teenagers mistakes. Being an adult does not imply being domineering, and manipulative. Some times, give the teenagers a chance to explore their own ideas. Lying to a teenager will make the teenager to lie to you some day. They always do what they see you do. He is not just a teenager; there is a father, leader and husband trapped in the heart of that teenager. Lay good examples for Him. Don't just